I had plenty to say in response, from my perspective as both an active-duty slut and a gay male sex therapist. I only remember the rather startling question that Mathew posed out of the blue: “Why are gay men so bad at having sex?” Since more than half the men in the room had been to bed with Mathew, it took a few minutes to ascertain that he wasn’t making an accusation but sharing a genuinely philosophical inquiry. I don’t recall whether the canonical four questions were addressed. At the non-traditional seder I attended at Randy’s house a few years ago.
